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Morally acceptable, sure. If your Aunt says she doesn’t want anything, and God made CNAs so nurses could have heroes too shirt, then she shouldn’t take anything. But, I don’t think it is entirely right to keep the money from her if she were to ask. The absolute best thing to do, would be to have your uncle decide where he wants his money to go, get it in writing, and abide by that. Barring that, I think it would be more than fair for her to claim a portion should your aunt try to take all the money. She could work out an hourly or salaried rate for his care and be paid accordingly.
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If your uncle can’t bear the idea of God made CNAs so nurses could have heroes too shirt, then it would be even better for him to begin paying your mother for her services, and for her to track her time, services, and expenses for his care. If he can’t decide this kind of thing anymore, but has control of his finances, then she could probably still legally pay herself for the same. Again, it would need to be reasonable and thoroughly documented to hold up in court. Consult a lawyer. Or at least see a social worker or legal aid worker who would probably consult for free.